Bisexuality is attraction to more than one gender. It's part of the broader spectrum of sexual orientations.
Bisexuality means experiencing romantic, emotional, or sexual attraction to people of your own gender and other genders. This doesn't require equal attraction to all genders. The key is flexibility, not strict balance.
The term "bisexual" was first used in the 19th century. Today, it's widely accepted within the LGBTQ+ community. The Bi+ umbrella includes identities like pansexual and queer, which also describe attraction beyond gender lines.
| Type | Description |
|---|---|
| Biromantic | Romantic attraction to multiple genders, but not necessarily sexual. |
| Panromantic | Romantic attraction regardless of gender, often overlapping with bisexuality. |
| Queer | A broad term for non-heterosexual identities, sometimes used interchangeably with bisexual. |
Many assume bisexuality means equal attraction to all genders. In reality, attraction varies by individual. Some bisexual people feel stronger attraction to one gender, while others experience fluid attraction.
Another myth is that bisexuality is a phase. Research shows bisexuality is a stable identity for most who identify as such. According to a study by the Williams Institute, about 56% of LGBTQ+ adults identify as bisexual.
Self-discovery starts with reflection. Ask yourself: Do I feel attracted to people of different genders? How do I label my experiences? There's no rush-identity can evolve over time.
Talking to trusted friends or joining LGBTQ+ communities can provide support. Reading about bisexual experiences, like those shared on GLAAD's resources, can also help.
When I first questioned my sexuality, I read books and articles about bisexuality. I realized my attractions weren't limited to one gender. Accepting this label helped me understand myself better.
If you're asking "Am I bisexual?", consider exploring resources or talking to someone who identifies as bisexual. Understanding your feelings takes time, and there's no single right way to identify.